I fear there is another virus worse than the H1N1 swine flu that is taking over America. It is a virus epidemic that infects the mind and it has now spread out of control. There is something fundamentally wrong with the thinking in America and much of the West today. It is as if a computer virus has spread to humans and has infected their minds. Specific examples of the symptoms probably are not being noticed because they are rapidly becoming the norm. The virus seems to hinder the ability to process data; the ability to comprehend; to understand and profit from experience, and to think rationally. I will mention just a few examples that I was exposed to in the last few weeks so you might identify and isolate the virus yourself if those infected should get anywhere near you.
I have been trying to sell a property in New York State and have just bought a property in the state where I am now located. Neither of the closings went well. On this end the closing was delayed for a month because of the stupidity of the title company and on the other end the house sale in New York is being delayed by a dumb mistake by one of the lawyers doing the closing. I will not even talk about the minds of some of the realtors that I have dealt with because it is too late for those that are already brain dead (Debbie your excluded).
We had a well known insurance company insuring the property we just bought here (it is the company that uses an umbrella in its ads). They sent an agent out to look at the property and we were told that everything was fine. A few weeks later they sent out a second agent to look at it again while nobody was here and then sent us a letter telling us they are going to drop our insurance because the wood siding on our house and outbuilding needed treating and a old chicken coup roof needed repair (no joke). We then called the independent insurance broker from whom we obtained the insurance and he told us that he talked to the umbrella company and that they will not drop us if we got the siding treated. Fine, we spent almost three thousand dollars getting the wood treated and then sent them pictures proving the wood siding was taken care of. We were getting positive feedback from the independent insurance broker but he could not tell us if we would actually have insurance when the drop date was that day at midnight. So I told my wife to call the umbrella company directly and when she did the umbrella company phone agent said that we were really dropped because their company does not insure houses that burn wood for heat. Nevermind, that not one word was ever said about wood heat in the letter that they sent us notifying us they were dropping us. Nevermind, that the only wood burner is outside and away from the house. Nevermind that the first agent they sent saw nothing wrong, Nevermind, that my wife originally told them we partly heating with wood when she signed up with the umbrella company in the first place. Nevermind, that their letter was responsible for us spending $3000 to treat the siding.
So apparently the letter they sent us about the siding misrepresented why they dropped our insurance. The independent insurance agent we were going through was also either lied to by them or was just making things up as he went along himself. Since I have the proof in writing I might have a mind to sue them for our costs of getting the siding treated. However, I know if you sue one insurance company under the intrusive insurance system in this nation they will freely exchange this data with every other insurance company in the world. You then will not be able to obtain insurance from any other insurance company.
We went to a county court proceedings the other day because a woman in our area has allegedly been ripping off a charity and we wanted to see the outcome of her arraignment. I guess I sat through 20 or more arraignments before they got to her case. Most of them were for check fraud. I found out something I did not know. Did you know (at least in this county) that if someone pleads guilty to felony fraud no matter how many counts there are that they will just require the person that pleads guilty to pay restitution to the victims and the court costs? They also get about 3 months to a year probation but after the probation expires nothing about the charge is retained on their record. So next time they defraud someone their prior convictions will not count! That means that as long as these criminals do not get caught again while on probation they will have a clean record forever to go on defrauding people.
Then we wonder why there is so much fraud in America. First these criminals have to get caught, and next the prosecutor has to want to charge them, and then even after they go to the judge he just lets them off by paying restitution, court charges and a little probation. Then in a few months they have a clean record and are free to rip people off all over again knowing that next time they get caught they only will have their wrist slapped again.
My wife had a regional plumbing franchise (named after one of our founding fathers) come out for a flat $45 fee to look at the water line to the refrigerator ice maker and a spray hose on our kitchen sink that was not connected. Most of the agents time here was spent trying to talk me into a long term contract for all the plumbing in the house. He finally did take a look under the kitchen sink and then he told me that there is no connection for the sink sprayer on the sink so the prior owner probably changed sinks and that is not the original sink. I said there is a connection on that sink and I gave him a flashlight so he could actually at least see it this time. He then looks again and agrees that there is a place on the sink to connect the spray hose. He then looks in his fee book and tells me that it will be somewhere near $200 to get that working. The agent next looks at the valve for the water line to the refrigerator ice maker and tells me the handle that turns the valve is stripped so he looks again in his fee book and determines that will cost about $150 to fix.
I had enough and I think he got the message when I loudly called my wife and told her I thought you called someone out here that would fix the problems not quote unreasonable prices to fix what I could fix myself for a couple of bucks. My real beef is that he was already here but he wanted to charge us as if each problem was a separate service call. Frankly, in the time that he made his sales pitch he could have had both problems fixed and I would be happy to use his service again. Expecting me to pay $400 for plumbing work that could be fixed in about 30 minutes is nuts, and to me it seems like he is just a member of a predatory service looking for feeble minded suckers. I flushed that plumbing company.
I had a flat on my Hyundai the other day on a dirt rood in the middle of nowhere. Guess what? After you get the lug nuts off and jack up the car with their toy tools, the wheel does not come off no matter how hard you pull on it. My wife had to walk up a hill where she could get cell phone reception to call our mechanic to find out how they get tire wheels off of this Hyundai. We find out that he uses something like a sledge hammer and bangs on the inside of the tire and rim. That was useful information but was not much help with my problem since we do not carry sledge hammers in our trunk. I tried big sticks, rocks, kicking, cursing, etc., to no avail. Finally a logging truck came down the road and the driver had a wrench as big as a sledge hammer and we knocked the tire off. Otherwise it would have been a very long day. The moral of the story is if you are going to buy a Korean Hyundai prepare to use a sledge hammer on it.
We have been doing a lot of visiting of churches in the area trying to find a new church home. I notice that almost all of the Baptist churches in the area have a six foot framed church covenant hanging somewhere where you cannot miss it (I really think those signs fornicate at night and reproduce themselves). These churches do not hang the ten commandments, mind you, they just hang a huge church covenant that came out of some old hymnal that certain people blow up, frame and hang on a wall for legalistic emphases. This is a Church Covenant that only makes sense if you speak in King James and expect everyone in your church to go way beyond just keeping all the ten commandments.
One church was actually a top contender for a church home for us until I noticed that big framed church covenant in their lobby and then also found out that their youth minister cannot be ordained or become a deacon in that church because he once had a divorce. Seems they think he cannot be a deacon but he can preach from the pulpit at times and pastor the youth of the church all of the time. I guess the Bible does not say anything specifically about youth ministers so it is fine with them if he pastors their kids but God forbid that he becomes a deacon in their church. How can people be that wooden minded in Biblical discernment?
I ran into this issue in my last church as well. There you even had to agree to that church covenant or you could not even become a member and if your wife was divorced before she was even saved and you married her you could never become a deacon. I wonder why members in local churches cannot have the wisdom to discern who is or is not qualified for leadership? Do they have to woodenly use passages that they probably do not even fully understand to determine matters that are meant to be discerned by the local body? Where is the freedom in Christ for the local body to actually determine who is or is not suitable to be their church leaders? Who on earth really knows the spiritual maturity of people in their congregations better than the people in the congregation and why is one supposed sin of the past the primary rule to disqualify proven people of integrity today?
Anyway, we could not join the church in our old location without being hypocrites by agreeing to that covenant and I never could get them to change their membership requirements even after attending the church for over a year. In that time, they hired and fired a pastor and I had no vote in the matter. So when we moved here I had already decided that I am not going to keep attending any church where I cannot be a member (without being a hypocrite). So the church search still goes on for us because many Baptists want to display on the wall that they lack freedom to use their own spiritual discernment.
Anyone ever try to change a direct deposit routing with Social Security? Totally nuts! It seemed like I was speaking to a female version of Hal, in ” 2001 A space Odyssey”. This Ro-bot (lets just call her Ro) must have asked me about thirty questions most requiring spelling of names or a series of numbers that Ro would repeat back and ask if it was correct. Only thing, Ro was no Hal, Hal understood English pretty good and even though I thought I was talking English to Ro she kept reading back numbers and letters that I never said. This conversation with Ro went on for about a half hour. I still wonder what bank Ro actually will send my direct deposit to since the one thing that Ro never repeated back was the bank routing number. Maybe Ro and Bo (her male counterpart) have their own account for funds with wrong routing numbers and they intend to use it to buy Cray’s as their offspring.
Every time I go into Wal-Mart these days there is something to remind me that prices keep going up even though the government tells us that there is no inflation. Come on.. $4.50 for a twelve pack of soda! twenty dollars for a pair of reading glasses that were just $5 two years ago! Why are 5 lb packs of water coated chicken wings that once were $4 a few years ago now four lbs and $11? Often the prices stay the same but the packages keep getting smaller. I remember that happening in the days of Jimmy Carter when inflation was running 10 to 20 percent each year but now we are told there is no inflation. So why are most half gallons of ice cream now 48 ounces. Why are 8 ounces of yogurt now 6 ounces? Why are lb packages of candy now 11 ounces? I saw lb packages of lettuce drop to 12 ounces and then 8 ounces in one place, etc ,etc. Do the manufactures really think the American people are so brain dead that they will not notice that they are buying less for the same amount of money? Seems that we are or these rapidly shrinking products would rapidly shrink off the shelves when we refuse to buy these obvious deceptions. Just wait until the value of the dollar drops and all the Chinese produces in Wal-Mart suddenly double.
Believe me there is a lot more I could bring up but I think you get the idea why I think that many minds are infected by a brain virus. I am sure you have your own stories to bring up as fitting examples. You can if you want. Using me and this article as an example does not count.
This is one of the signs that Romans 1 talks about which is a debased mind. So now you can understand why most Americans minds are useless. Churches could replace those “church covenants” and have Acts 17:11 framed. But I bet not many preachers will do that because they are control freaks. Here is Acts 17:11 so u do not have to look it up
These were more fair-minded than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness, and searched the Scriptures daily to find out whether these things were so.
Wow. You’ve had a rough time of it so far. About the doctrinal issues. Anyone who has been divorced is not supposed to be a pastor of a church or preach to the congregation. This is what the Bible states, so it should be respected. I believe it was Paul that said something to the effect that someone that can’t take control of his own life should not be appointed over people.
It seems cold to people today that are easily offended, but if God’s wishes are not respected in this area, other doctrinal precepts will be thrown out as well. Some churches have single men as youth pastors! That is a recipe for fornication and a married man should obviously be youth pastor. I have heard too many stories of relations happening with of age teens and youth pastors. In fact, a woman I dated a few years ago admitted that she had relations with a single youth pastor when she was 17.
I loved this post.
The three passages in the NT all say “husband of one wife”. What that really means is defined differently by different theologians some say it is talking about the practice of polygamy in those days and others say divorce. These passage are certainly not saying that a deacon cannot marry a women who was divorced and certainly it is not saying a woman that was divorced before she was even saved. They get their disqualification from Lu 16:18 that says, “Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery”. but Jesus was explaining about the righteous required by the law. However, even if the passage is taken woodenly as some directive to the Church the Bible says those who even look at a woman with lust would also be equally sinful. Nonetheless, that church that I attended does not disqualify those types of men from being deacons or men that had any other known sin in their past. In their bylaws, they only disqualify men who married a woman that was divorced from ever being a deacon.
Where in the Bible does it say that a person that was divorced is not supposed to preach to the congregation like you said? There is no such passage that I know of.
Like I said, Paul says in the NT that someone who can’t manage their house, shouldn’t be appointed over other people in the church. Someone who is divorced and re-married obviously made bad choices outside of God’s will. Heck, I’m guilty of that myself, so I do not deserve to be teaching/preaching to other people. But that does not prohibit Christians from being workers, evangelists, etc.
We all make bad choices out of God’s will. Obviously Paul was not saying that people should be in God’s will bringing up their household as Christians before they even were saved. The scriptures also do not indicate that people divorced before they even became Christians cannot become deacons after they are.
I also thought that evangelists preached but you excluded divorced people from being preachers in a previous comment?
Evangelists/soul winners are not preaching to a congregation. Every Christian is still commanded to win souls. Single, married, or divorced makes no difference.
But Christians that had a divorce can’t preach to them about salvation when they evangelize huh? 😥
Of course people that are divorced can win souls.
So they can preach the gospel then, right?
Wow Frank… Paul withstood Peter to his face to declare we’re not under Law but Grace. I’d stand in front of a congregation and proudly declare that Grace freely given to me even though I’m divorced. Under your reasoning I’d be condemned.
Where is the world do you come up with your thoughts ? Of course you’re not condemned for being divorced. I’m just telling you what the Bible says, don’t be offended.
I’m divorced. I cannot pastor a church. I can win souls. It’s as simple as that.
Has nothing to do with God’s grace. It’s the doctrine of the Bible. I’m sorry if that offends you.
Frank, I am not speaking for Ken C, but I for one am trying to get you to look at your inconsistent rhetoric. If you are telling us what the Bible really says then I will ask you to tell us where the Bible says that divorced people cannot preach? After all, if you read your last statements that is what you keep claiming. Preaching and the election of elders in a local church are not the same thing.
I know what the bible says about picking elders we were never talking about divorced people leading a local church here.
Frank said ” I believe it was Paul that said something to the effect that someone that can’t take control of his own life should not be appointed over people” Perhaps getting divorced Is taking control of your life. Ever think of that.
I didn’t mean that you said I was condemned for getting divorced. What I meant was, my proclamation to a congregation of the Gospel of Grace would condemn me in your view.
I am offended by christians claiming to quote scripture to condemn others when as Don stated you cannot point to specific text for your context.
Rom 8:1 “There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus”
Wow, this post went off on a tangent…I am going to try to stay on-topic even though I am among the divorced (and remarried) elect.
Anyway, Don, I really appreciated you posting this, and it would be laughable if it wasn’t so sad. I do have a story to share that defies logic, and took me over a month to straighten out. I once banked with a small town community bank that was taken over by a conglomerate (one that refers to a native or member of a state, hmmm). Anyway, I never changed banks as I was grandfathered in with my orinal banks terms. However this summer we had some money problems and had a check clear the bank the night before the deposit went in. I accept responsibility for this, after all I wrote the check Problem I had was that they posted the check BEFORE all the posted transactions that had cleared my account the day before, this illegal accounting method cost me $390 in fees, one for each transaction that had taken place over the weekend, for a $29 overdraft. I only knew these items were already POSTED, not pending, because I was watching my account so closely and had checked the items off in my checkbook. When I called the bank, I thought they might work with me since I had not bounced any checks with them. Nope. They did not, and I closed all 6 accounts with them that day. Good riddance, right? NO. A month after I closed the account I received an overdraft notice on my primary checking account. Again, thinking the situation would be easily rectified (I worked for over 10 years in banks, I know the deal, or at least used to) I called them to clarify the matter and was told that they would open a case file and that I must fill out an affidavit saying I never authorized the payee to withdraw from my account. Technically, this is not true, and legally it is false (I also worked as a paralegal). However, I reminded them that they were no longer authorized to make any payments on my behalf as the ACCOUNT HAD BEEN CLOSED FOR OVER A MONTH. So, long story short, the $21.19 charge cost me a $39 overdraft fee, and began accruing $35 “administrative” fees every five days. Meanwhile, I was getting nasty letters from them all the while. None of my phone calls were being answered. Finally, after about a month of this nonsense, I called and left the message that I would not be calling again, but that my attorney (OK, I don’t really have one – but I used to work for one;) will be in touch with them concerning this matter. I received a phone call back that day that the nearly $300 negative balance had been resolved. I thanked God, but still remain frustrated for 2 reasons: One: this insanity cost me alot of time. Two: Many people would not have the time or the resources to rectify situations like this are just paying the fees.
Yup, the world has surely been infected by a virus, and its a superflu.
BTW, I have been praying over my finances and it seems to be working, but I will be sure to let you know if I receive any unexpected deposits 🙂
Thank you for letting me share my story. I really felt like I was down the rabbit hole on this one. I have others, but this one topped them all. Seems like the insanity is pervasive.
Thanking God I am just passing through.
Betty
Thanks for the story. Most banks are totally inflexible. I think they do not give their virus infected people any leeway to make just decisions for themselves. The Bank from which we recently got a loan on our new property charged us a month payment before the loan even closed because the title company had a month delay. I was told they had to charge us because the title company had their paper check. Nevermind, that the paper check was never cashed until the house closed a month later and the real money was still somewhere collecting interest for them. So they got double interest for a month at our expense instead of doing what was right and adjusting the loan. Fine, if they want to play that game we will pay that loan off ASAP and then we will never do any business with that bank again. In fact, I just opened an account with their competitor.
I will not bank with predatory banks. One such bank is named after this country and they did not follow through on what a higher level supervisor promised after I spent half the day going up the chain of command to get back some of the money that they were robbing from me in monthly fees just because the phone representative who changed my account had no brain.
Betty,
I think we had the same thing happen. The “bank with the name that sounds an awful lot like our country” charged us overdraft fees for transactions that had already posted. In fact, we were charged something like six overdraft fees for items that had already posted. Initially, it was our fault. A larger transaction posted and we didn’t have the money to cover it. So, the bank proceeded to post that transaction first and all the other little transactions that actually came first AND CLEARED, were then posted AFTER this larger transaction…including debits.
While we should have been charged an overdraft fee for the transaction that put us negative…we should NOT have been charged the other five!
My husband ended up paying the WHOPPING negative balance we ended up with. Needless to say, we closed the account and agree that people who use this bank are “SAPS”. 😉
And, boy, do we have nightmares about realtors. I’m not sure about other states, but here in Florida, it is just too easy to become a real estate agent! I have some really good stories about that!