Jim Elliff hits the nail on the head in this article about Southern Baptist membership not showing up. Most Southern Baptist members do not attend more than once or twice a month if at all. I cannot do the article justice by the few quotes of his that I quoted below so you will have to read the full article below.
First, I will make my own observations and comments on this subject. They probably will not totally agree with Elliff’s observations and conclusions.
The issue in this article is why Southern Baptists do not faithfully attend their gathering and what should be done about it? For that matter we could be be talking about every other evangelical denomination or church in America. I have been a member of several denominations and I have attended many different churches for extended periods of time. They all have the same problem. Only about a third of those on the membership role show up on any given Sunday if they show up at all. For Sunday night and Wednesday services your lucky if 15 percent attend if they even have such a service. In church business meetings you see the same ten percent show up each month or quarter and most of them are on the board or some committee and have to be there. The rest of the membership apparently could care less about the affairs of their church.
I have been saying all along that over half of the people in evangelical denominations are not Christians at all, nothing I read or observe leads me to think I am wrong about that. When I attend Sunday school and observe that most of the few members that actually do attend do not read or know their Bible it is apparent to me that they are not serious about learning about the things of God. The churches and denominations do not encourage real Bible study either by having magazine studies about the Bible (often Lifeway Bible study material).
First lets take a look at the membership roles and numbers. Pastors and church boards l o v e n u m b e r s. It gives them bragging rights. I would not be in error to say that I am still an active member of some churches that I have not attended for years. Many churches simply do not remove inactive members from their roles. So, I would say Jim Elliff is underestimating that factor. The truth is that many churches are only half of the size that they like to advertise.
Next, we have to look at the purpose of the Church. Some in leadership seem to think the purpose of their church is to meet for Sunday ritual and worship. Actually you can worship at home in spirit and truth. The main purpose for the assembly of the Church is for Christian fellowship and for the members in the Body to use their God given spiritual gifts for others in the Body. The main reasons why members do not like to attend the Sunday ritual services is that they often find no fellowship and they just leave empty. Another purpose for the assembly of the Church is for teaching and the building up of each other in the faith. One of the main reasons why members do not attend is that they are not getting biblical teaching and Christian instruction at church. They go to church but hear a seeker friendly gospel lite service or in the Charismatics churches they have an emotional trip but learn nothing. If I joined a food coop to get nourishing food and they only had sweets I am ether going to go somewhere else to get real food or I am only going to get real fat and lazy. Many that attend some churches faithfully are spiritual diabetics or emotional speed junkies it is the healthy people that are long gone. So I am not sure you can even say that the people who attend the services faithfully are the Christians. The Christians might be the healthy ones who got tired of junk food or charismatic amphetamine and left.
Many unstable postmodern teachers teach that Christian doctrine divides and keep us from unity but these people are the real problem in the churches because you cannot have true Christian unity without agreement on the essentials doctrines of the Christian faith. Here is a fine article on this doctrine debate. There are many fine points within this article. One section is where Dr. Norman Geisler points out 14 essential Christian doctrines that all Christians have to stand firm on. There can be no unity with those who claim to be Christians but oppose these essential doctrines. The doctrine debate article also points out that those who do not understand Christian doctrine will not have a Christian worldview and that means that God will not be a major factor in the choices they make in their everyday life choices. The Bara Group survey claims that where Christians do not believe the Bible is the moral standard of absolute truth, only 9 percent of born-again adults and 2 percent of born-again youth have a biblical worldview (two percent of born again Christian youth!!). Here is another article that will give you even more excellent perspectives on what is going on in our churches. If you wonder why the country is a mess, query the believes of those that attend and lead your own congregations and you will know why.
Lets face it many that are on the church membership roles are only there because someone pressured them into it. Perhaps they had to become a member to get married in that church. Perhaps they joined to please their parents, their family members, or their spouse or even their pastor. Perhaps it was to enhance their standing in the community. Perhaps it was a response to an altar call where peer pressure mind control methods were used. How many churches have you been in where almost everyone is coerced to come to the altar to get saved or rededicate their lives? You feel like the social leaper if you are one of the few people left in the pews that do not respond to such coercion. So when mind control techniques like these are used, and they are used more than you think, don’t expect it to produce genuine conversion. Chances are once these “new converts” see how they were manipulated they will avoid your church like a plague. This is what cults do to build membership. Pastors need to teach the good news for those with ears to hear but only the Holy Spirit can bring people to repentance and true conversion.
So what are the answers? Some of the answers are what Jim Eliiff gives in this articles but that is only part of it. The whole Western Christian mindset has to change. Christianity is not weekly meetings and percentage in attendance. It is a way of community life for believers. I think someone should develop a teaching series that should be mandatory before anyone becomes a member of any Western evangelical church. The series would be based on the daily life of Christians where Christians are persecuted and not allowed to assemble in buildings but nevertheless they find a way to assemble and fellowship with each other daily. The leadership of our churches need to go back to the ways of Christianity and stop learning the techniques of the world to grow a church and produce worldly feigned success. When the church is filled with true believing Christians, where Christian doctrine is taught the Holy Spirit will lead the people there to learn about salvation but the Holy Spirit is not going to lead people to a sugar shack of diabetic sheep.
What reward will you get from God if you lead a church filled with 10,000 people but the works of the Holy Spirit are absent? It would be better for you that you led a small church where the Holy Spirit was working because then you will certainly receive a reward from God.
Southern Baptists, An Unregenerate Denomination
Like the unfortunate person above, the Southern Baptist Convention has a name that it is alive, but is in fact, mostly dead (Rev. 3:1). Regardless of the wonderful advances in our commitment to the Bible and the recovery of our seminaries, a closer look reveals a denomination that is more like a corpse than a fit athlete. In an unusual way, our understanding of this awful reality provides the most exciting prospects for the future-if we will act decisively.
Although the Southern Baptists claim 16,287,494 members, on average only 6,024,289 people (guests and non-member children included), a number equal to only 37% of the membership number, show up for their church’s primary worship meeting (usually Sunday morning). This is according to the Strategic Information and Planning department of the Sunday School Board (2004 statistics). If your church is anything like normal, and is not brand new, your statistics are probably similar. In other words, if you have 200 in attendance on Sunday morning, you likely have 500-600 or even more on your roll. Many churches have an even worse record.
Discerning who among us is regenerate is not an exact science, but a closer look at these numbers will at least alert us to the fact that most Southern Baptists must certainly be dead spiritually. That is so, unless, of course, you claim that there is no difference between a believer and a non-believer.
We don’t need better methods to get people down to the front. What we need is more biblical content and more unction in our preaching. You cannot beat sinners away from Christ when God is bringing them in (see Jn. 6:37, 44-45). When as many as 70-90% of “converts” are giving little, if any, evidence of being saved after their first weeks or months of emotional excitement, questions should be asked, both about our understanding of the gospel and about our methods. Forget the fact, if you must, that there is no clear biblical precedent for the altar call. Even considering the matter pragmatically ought to make us quit. Though prevalent in our churches for decades, it has not helped us.
The dangerous practice of receiving new members immediately after they walk the aisle must finally be abandoned. Also, more careful counsel should be taken with those entering in as members from other churches. And add to this a need for much deeper thinking concerning childhood conversion. An alarming percentage of childhood professions wash out later in the teen and college years. For unconverted yet baptized church kids, the more independence they are granted, the more they live out their true nature.
4. We must stop giving immediate verbal assurance to people who make professions of faith or who respond to our invitations. It is the Holy Spirit’s job to give assurance. We are to give the basis upon which assurance can be had, not the assurance itself. Study 1 John in this respect. What things were written so that they might know they have eternal life? (1 Jn. 5:13). Answer: The tests given in the book. The Bible says that the Holy Spirit testifies to our spirit that we are children of God (Rom. 8:16).
5. We must restore sound doctrine. Revival, I am finding as I study its history, is largely about the recovery of the true gospel. The three great doctrines which have so often shown up in true revival are: 1) God’s sovereignty in salvation, 2) justification by grace through faith alone, and 3) regeneration with discernible fruit. Revival is God showing up, but the blessing of the presence of God is directly affected by our beliefs. God most often comes in the context of these and other great doctrines, preached penetratingly and faithfully, and with the unction of the Holy Spirit.
Which army would you rather have? Gideon’s first army or his last? No church, and no denomination, should call itself healthy unless more people attend than are on the roll.
Today, in rough numbers, it takes 300 people on our rolls to have 100 attenders. In the 1790s, it took only 33. Or, to put it in larger figures, it now takes nearly 3000 people, supposedly won to Christ and baptized, to result in a church attendance of 1000. Then, it took only 333. Our potency has diminished to such an extent that we must “win” and “baptize” over 2,000 more people to get to the same 1000 to attend.
I personally attended an S.B.C. megachurch in Macon, GA for a few months last year. No alter calls, and women actually shaking their rumps to the music in the stadium seating. It was truly sad to not see anyone make a decision for Christ. We are definately in the last days of “Laodicean” churches. I firmly believe that the churches are more interested in attendance numbers and tithe money than they are in winning souls for Christ. I also firmly believe that some people think they are a believer if they have an “experience”.
With no alter call, how can we tell if one is truly a believer? So sad.
You cannot tell if someone is a true believer with an altar call either. Only God and hopefully that person knows if they truly believe in Jesus as Lord and Savior or if they are just on some trip or a great pretenders. The lives being lived and the denial of the faith by some who claimed to have been saved in an altar call is one reason why many pastors have stopped giving altar calls. Jim also talks about this in the article I quote. There are no altar calls in the Bible just a response to the message.
I knew a very gifted pastor in a mega church that used to talk a hundred people each Sunday into getting saved in his lengthy altar calls. After several years of this he realized that they were going out the back door as fast as they were getting saved. He stopped giving altar calls.
John talks about the pretenders. I am sure these people in the early church went through all the motions and had everyone convinced that they were believers as well, until they left. Therefore, The proof of belief is perseverance until the end not if one responds to an altar call.
1Jo 2:19 They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.
My point was that at the church I attended, there was no visible/discernable attempt to obtain a decision for Christ. Music, sermon, then dismissal. The alter call appears to have gone out with the ’90s.
Within the past year, my wife was suffering from cancer and I could not attend church every week since I had to stay home and care for her. I don’t know about the Southern Baptists but the last two churches that I attended were Charismatic and Independent. The services were fine, some very spiritual with good worship and teaching. The thing that bothers me is that, if for some reason, I can’t attend for a week or two, I never receive a call from anyone, nothing, nada. This bothers me. I even suggested to one of the pastors that someone should be designated to give follow up calls, especially to new people. I personally volunteered my services to make the calls. He listened and that was the end of it. I sent emails to one pastor and never got a response. Sometimes, I get fed up and stay home and think, what is the purpose of attending church. I can worship at home. No one will miss me anyway! Well thats not entirely true. When i do return, even after a month, the pastor will ask me how my wife and I are doing. What about in the interim? Suppose something happened to me; maybe I was in an accident or worse. I could be dead and buried and no one would know. Would they care? Would anyone bother to find out? You see what I am getting at? The church cannot be like that in my opinion. We have to be more caring and responsible. I’m not advocating that the church call you every day. That is the opposite side of the coin; but there should be a balance.
You are very right Don. I have seen people who used to be at church and now they have gone wild and rebellious. And there are many church members that are currently living in sin. So I would not blame anybody if they started having services in their homes because the churches that stay inline with the Word are very few in America.
When I was about 7 years old I told my Mom I didn’t want to go to church, she simply stated “no you don’t have to go to church, you get to go”. That simple statement has stuck with me ever since. The Lord reminds every day “no you don’t have to serve Me, you get to serve Me”.
How many situations like Rob’s have we as believers in Christ do we run into during our day to day activities? Just because you can not find a body of believers to meet with every Sunday in 501c3 sanctioned building does not mean that you are not walking with the Lord in the manner that churches in the U.S. think you should. A true believer in Christ is or should be aware of the fact that we are suppose to all be priests, the priest goes into the inner sanctuary to come before God bringing the thanks, burdens and requests of those that don’t know or are unable to do the same.
The Bible says we are not to forsake the gathering of ourselves. We have all done it, myself included. Attending church is not mandated, yes, but it is more difficult to live a godly life for Christ without attending a Bible based church.
The mindset of going to church to get something needs to be changed. As you mentioned in your article, members are to move in the spiritual gifts of the Holy Spirit in order to help one another. It is shocking to realize that many Christians do not know the teachings of 1Corinthians 12 on the gifts of the Spirit. They don’t even know what those gifts are, much less that they are supposed to use them for the good of others.
Many of the churches, instead of being one Body, are divided into the priesthood and those who sit in the pews. Maybe many are dropping out of church because they don’t feel needed or a part of the Body of Christ. This is also why many pastors burn out: they’re doing all the work that the Lord meant to be shared by all.
When Christians learn who they are in Christ, what their responsibilities are in the Body, that they are to go to church to give(yes, they will also receive but it’s about the correct motivation of the heart), and the pastors learn to share the workload; then church might be more like it was during the days of the Book of Acts.
Exactly! Church institutions generally have become gathering places for spectators but the true Church is a body of believers empowered by the Holy Spirit to carry out God’s will on earth. Our work today is really little different then it will be in the Kingdom. If we are not using our gifts in this dispensation of time what makes anyone think God will give that person more authority to rule and reign with Christ in the coming Kingdom?